Monday, May 25, 2015

The PSJ ~ Memorial Day ~ May 25, 2015


Happy Memorial Day

Joe and Jane in Maple Valley ready to eat a Memorial Day Dinner

Memorial Day is a day of 
remembrance and gratitude. 
I am grateful for 
this great land of my birth. 

When we ponder that vast throng 
who have died honorably 
defending home and hearth, 
we contemplate those immortal words, 
“Greater love hath no man than this,
 that a man lay down his life 
for his friends.” 
~John 15:13
New Testament in the Bible

The feelings of heartfelt gratitude
 for the supreme sacrifice 
made by so many 
cannot be confined to 
a Memorial Day, a military parade, 
or a decorated grave.

As we remember them; 
may we also take time 
to remember and be grateful for
 our parents, 
our brothers and sisters, 
our teachers, 
our friends 
and others 
who have given a part of 
their lives to make our lives better.

We can lift ourselves and others
 when we cultivate within our hearts
 an attitude of gratitude 
all year round.

I love you all 
and am grateful for the 
love you have given
and continue to give to me
and each other.




Sunday, May 10, 2015

The Prince Street Journal~Mother's Day May 10, 2015


To my 7 wonderful children:
thank you 
for making me a mother!

1971 Tamra

1974 Amy

1976 Benjamin

1978 Joseph

1980 Jane

1982 Daniel

1984 Caroline

I have been so blessed 
to have each of you in my life.

I believe this journey of life is about 
learning from our experiences
to love and care for each other.

 I am so grateful to 
be sharing this journey with you.

Mother's Day 1990 
was the beginning of a new era 
in my life as a mother. 

From that point on I 
felt an even greater responsibility 
to fulfill the role of parent to you all.

I am certainly not perfect.
 I have and will make mistakes, 
but that's the miracle of forgiveness. 
As we forgive ourselves & each other
 we learn and grow;
 and then with hope for our future
we will change for the better.
What's amazing to me
 is how each of you,
at just the right moment,
 provide me with the strength
 I need to carry on 
and continually find joy
 in this journey of life. 

So again, I pause
 on this Mother's Day 2015
to thank you
 for making me your mother.
An eternal role I am honored to have.


Sunday, May 3, 2015

PSJ Healthstyle Habits ~May 3, 2015

"We are what we repeatedly do. 
Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit." 
~Aristotle
Today's Blog is about how the choices we make 
create our habits of excellence.

My new Mickey Mouse Apple Watch face reminds me that 
I only have so many hours in the day 
to accomplish what is truly meaningful to me. 

Tamra has chosen to make her bed everyday. 
This reminds us that even small and simple habits 
add to the overall excellence in our lives.

Kellen and Kaliyah remind us that getting outdoors
 with people we love and enjoying the beautiful world
 brings us happiness.

And Caroline's homemade teriyaki veggie burger 
with avocado and grilled onions reminds us 
of the delicious and healthy choices we can make
 with a little planning and effort on our part.



Hello one and all! 

I'm back after an almost month-long hiatus from Blogging. 
Though I continued with my life on a "must-do" sort of track, 
I saw my Healthstyle good Habits start slowly slipping backwards.
This is not good, nor what I want. 

I need the connection with my family through blogging
because writing helps me define my goals
 and your comments and sharing through social media
 and other communication motivates me to keep going.

Here's a couple of quotes that have helped me 
to get back on the "Excellence" track.


"Now is the time to set your life’s goals. Now is the time to set your standards firmly and then hold to them throughout your life...

Develop discipline of self so that, more and more, you do not have to decide and re-decide what you will do when you are confronted with the same temptation time and time again. You only need to decide some things once!


How great a blessing it is to be free of agonizing over and over again regarding a temptation. To do such is time-consuming and very risky.

Likewise, the positive things you will want to accomplish need only be decided upon once and then all other decisions related to these goals can easily be made. The sooner you decide to do what is right, the better it will be for you!" ~President Spencer W. Kimball

Here's part of a little chart I came up with

 to keep track of the things I already Do and Don't Do
 and also lists of the things I need to commit to do
 "once-and-for-all." 
Those last are the things I "sometimes" do,
 but just haven't made the final, 
"don't-have-to-keep-deciding" decision. 



This will be an ongoing thought-provoking exercise
 to honestly assess where I am right now
 and where I want to be.  


Are you depressed and or immobilized?

  1. Take a Hike: It’s well established that exercise lifts the spirits. Scientists tell us that 20 minutes of brisk walking or other aerobic activity actually alters brain chemistry, releasing special chemicals called endorphins into our system that give us a lift. Remember that one definition of depression is "immobilization." It only makes sense that one way to cure it is to "get moving."
  2. Ask Yourself This: "What would I be doing right now if I were not feeling depressed?" Picture this activity in your mind, then do it. Suppose your answer was, "I’d probably be with people." Then go somewhere where others are. You may argue, "But when I’m depressed, I don’t feel like doing anything!" True enough. But this inactivity becomes a dangerous cycle. Force yourself to do something, anything.
  3. Watch What You Put In Your Mouth: When we’re sad, it’s hard to resist medicating ourselves with food, alcohol or other drugs. Unfortunately, the high (whether from cake or alcohol) is temporary and leaves us feeling lower than when we started. Remember that "it’s not really what you eat, it’s what’s eating you." Don’t medicate, communicate.
Here's to a positive week of creating 
Habits of Excellence 

as we find joy in this journey called LIFE!

If you want a good song to listen to
 as you commute or start your day, 
download Aaron Tippins' song 
"You've Got To Stand for Something."
You can get it for $.99 on iTunes.

Love you all.
.